What is the point of working yourself to death? Take care of your body, heart, mind, and spirit to periodically recharge and you’ll actually achieve your peak performance better.On the surface, investing might seem to be all about making big plays at the right times. Money is just a funny way of keeping score. We must remember there’s more to life than money. Could you maybe work out a seller financing option or installment sale? Would an option contract make more sense for both parties? It’s not about your way or my way or even a compromise it is about finding our way. What if 1 + 1 = 3 or 30? Often in complicated deals require innovative solutions. Per Aaron Burr’s advise in the musical Hamilton: “Talk less. Too often are we ready to jump in to defend our position in negotiations or apply our own lens to the problems we miss out on the opportunity to peel back the onion to get at the deeper rooted issues. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand Then to Be Understood When you are able to do that you bet you will get tons of repeat business in the future. The reason it is hard is because it takes tremendous amount of integrity, maturity, and most of all, empathy. You might want to ask the agent or broker to reduce their commissions but you have to realize the pie is big enough for everybody. Win/lose situations don’t build trust over time.
Most investors are deal junkies but we must take the long view. We need to delegate or decline the busy work and focus on what will sustain our business in the long run and that is building relationships with brokers, agents, and various trades. However, as investors we often overspend our time in the not important but urgent quadrant and under invest in quadrant two, the important but not urgent items that will pay much more dividends down the road. We don’t have any problems with quadrant one the important and urgent tasks and although it might take some discipline for the most part we know to tune out the not important and not urgent time waster. Break out everything you have to do into a 2×2 matrix, one axis labeled important vs not important and the other axis labeled urgent vs not urgent. Habit 3: Put first thing firstĪs real estate investors you have a myriad of to do’s. What is your personal mission? Spread the gift you are put on this world for. Lots of motivational gurus talk about “what’s your why” or “finding your purpose” ad nauseam and the reason they do it is because it’s important. You also have to have a picture in mind what you want your life to look like in the end and your relationships with the people that matter so you don’t end up working aimlessly. This goes far beyond how you envisioning how you want your fixer to look at the end or conclusion of an investor pitch meeting. Waiting for problems to happen or the woe is me kind of attitude will get you nowhere. Accept responsibility for situations and take initiative to make things better.
As investors we must be proactive, control the controllable to expand our Circle of Influence. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. Inside that circle is a slightly smaller one, the Circle of Influence, for items that you have control over. The bigger circle, the Circle of Concern, is all of the things you can worry about going wrong in real estate: contractors not showing up, water heater breaks, investor backing out of commitment. Habit 1: Be ProactiveĬovey introduces the idea of Circle of Influence and Circle of Concern in his book. Recently I noticed many other business tips really stem from the book and decided to revisit the principles and see how they can be applied to real estate investing. Pretty soon I read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and many other similar business and self-help like books. I first read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens in high school after it was recommended by the librarian (thanks Mrs.
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